Tuesday, December 30, 2008

Picture of a Man

On this, the seventh anniversary of the death of Samuel Mockbee - I spent more than an hour mulling through thousands of photographs to find the perfect one to celebrate his amazing life. This is the one that touched my heart this year.


Jackie and Julius Mockbee accepting the 2003 AIA Gold Medal
awarded posthumously to Sambo Mockbee

Yes, Sambo inspired and continues to inspire hundreds and thousands of young architects (for kicks - google "inspired by Samuel Mockbee"). Sambo made better people out of all of us who were fortunate enough to know him. He is less famous for his genius as an artist, yet his paintings are as inspiring and thought provoking as his architecture. Above all of this, Sambo was an amazing Papa to Margaret, Sarah Ann, Carol, Julius and loving husband to Jackie Mockbee. Each of his children carry with them a part of Sambo's spirit - it is them and Jackie, that I salute and honor today - for they are Sambo's true legacy.


Samuel "Sambo" Mockbee
December 23, 1944 - December 30, 2001
Peace be with you friend, father, husband.

Wednesday, November 5, 2008

The Journey Begins



"It took a lot of blood, sweat and tears to get to where we are today, but we have just begun. Today we begin in earnest the work of making sure that the world we leave our children is just a little bit better than the one we inhabit today."

President-elect Barack Obama

Monday, November 3, 2008

Why Women Should Vote

A shameless cut and paste from an email I got today - but IMPORTANT~

This is the story of our Grandmothers and Great-grandmothers; they lived
only 90 years ago.


Remember, it was not until 1920
that women were granted the right to go to the polls and vote.


The women were innocent and defenseless, but they were jailed
nonetheless for picketing the White House, carrying signs asking
for the vote.

And by the end of the night, they were barely alive.
Forty prison guards wielding clubs and their warden's blessing
went on a rampage against the 33 women wrongly convicted of
'obstructing sidewalk traffic.'


(Lucy Burns)
They beat Lucy Burns, chained her hands to the cell bars above
her head and left her hanging for the night, bleeding and gasping
for air.
(Dora Lewis)
They hurled Dora Lewis into a dark cell, smashed her
head against an iron bed and knocked her out cold. Her cellmate,
Alice Cosu, thought Lewis was dead and suffered a heart attack.
Additional affidavits describe the guards grabbing, dragging,
beating, choking, slamming, pinching, twisting and kicking the women.

Thus unfolded the 'Night of Terror' on Nov. 15, 1917,
when the warden at the Occoquan Workhouse in Virginia ordered his
guards to teach a lesson to the suffragists imprisoned there because
they dared to picket Woodrow Wilson's White House for the right
to vote.
For weeks, the women's only water came from an open pail. Their
food--all of it colorless slop--was infested with worms.


(Alice Paul)
When one of the leaders, Alice Paul, embarked on a hunger strike, they tied
her to a chair, forced a tube down her throat and poured liquid into her
until she vomited. She was tortured like this for weeks
until word was smuggled out to the press.

http://memory.loc.gov/ammem/collections/suffrage/nwp/prisoners.pdf

So, refresh my memory. Some women won't vote this year because-
-why, exactly? We have carpool duties? We have to g
et to work?
Our vote doesn't matter? It's raining?

Last week, I went to a sparsely attended screening of HBO's new
movie 'Iron Jawed Angels.' It is a graphic depiction of the battle
these women waged so that I could pull the curtain at the polling
booth and have my say. I am ashamed to say I needed the reminder.

All these years later, voter registration is still my passion. But the
actual act of voting had become less personal for me, more rote.
Frankly, voting often felt more like an obligation t
han a privilege.
Sometimes it was inconvenient.

My friend Wendy, who is my age and studied women's history,
saw the HBO movie, too. When she stopped by my desk to talk
about it, she looked angry. She was--with herself. 'On
e thought
kept coming back to me as I watched that movie,' s
he said.
'What would those women think of the way I use, or don't use,
my right to vote? All of us take it for granted now, not just
younger women, but those of us who did seek to lea
rn.' The
right to vote, she said, had become valuable to her 'all over again.'

HBO released the movie on video and DVD . I wish all history,
social studies and government teachers would include the
movie in
their curriculum I want it shown on Bunco night,
too, and anywhere
else women gather. I realize this isn't our usual idea of soci
alizing,
but we are not voting in the numbers that we should be, and I think
a little shock therapy is in order.

It is jarring to watch Woodrow Wilson and his cronies try to persuade a
psychiatrist to declare Alice Paul insane so that she could be permanently
institutionalized. And it is inspiring to watch the docto
r refuse. Alice
Paul was strong, he said, and brave. That didn't ma
ke her crazy.

The doctor admonished the men: 'Courage in women is often mistaken for
insanity.'

Please, if you are so inclined, pass this on to all the women you know.

We need to get out and vote and use this right that was fought so
hard for by these very courageous women. Whether you vote democratic,
republican or independent party - remember to vote.

History is being made. NOW BE SURE TO VOTE AND KEEP MAKING HISTORY!!!

Friday, October 10, 2008

Dancing Soul

Some people come into our lives and quickly go. Some people move our souls to dance. They awaken us to a new understanding with the passing whisper of their wisdom. Some people make the sky more beautiful to gaze upon. They stay in our lives for awhile, leave footprints on our hearts, and we are never, ever the same. ~Flavia Weedn ~

I've come here often since Sept. 24 - only to stare blankly and wash my face with tears. I miss you terribly, want to talk to you and laugh with you and sew with you and eat lunch with you while you talk on your cell phone. I want to watch people's faces when they see us drive up on scooters at Momma G's. I want to sit with you in the back of the quilt guild meeting and pass notes. I want to watch you and Tom make killer margaritas. I want to watch you achieve your biking goals all over again. I want to hug beautiful quilts with you. Most of all, Cindy, I want to hug you and tell you - Thank you for being my friend for eleven fun years.

Sunday, August 17, 2008

Busy


Busy robs us of our life. With so many balls to juggle, we end up too busy to live. Too busy to post. Too busy to quilt. Too busy to read. Too busy to exercise. Too busy to phone. Too busy to have dinner with friends. Too busy to go out. Too busy to relax. Too busy to LIVE.

What is life if it is too busy? How do you live in the moment if you're too busy?

I came across this - Busy Blog

Busy - begs the question. . . .Am I inefficient?

I don't think so - I'm indecisive. I have too many choices and I can't decide what I want, what makes me happy - I want it all. I want my children to have it all. I want my marriage to have it all. I want to do the best job possible at everything I do - so, I try to do it all. When in fact, if I decide to do a few things well, I wouldn't be busy, but rather I'd live.

Friday, July 18, 2008

Big Mommas

This is for my dear friends who are NOT UBER SKINNY MOMMAS~

First and I do mean first - you must read

THIS - CHEESECAKE MAVIN'S DAY AT THE POOL~

I have to say~ The Uber Skinny comments came from a 12 year old that weighs 65 pounds with his shoes on! and I CAN FEEL HIS BONES!



Where's my royal blue tutu?

Saturday, July 12, 2008

Thoughts About Change



Change~ Why is change appealing to me? I get bored easily. I need a change of scenery, a change of routine - always. I don't like leftovers for dinner.

I passed the seventh anniversary at my job this summer - the longest I have ever worked at one place before that was five years. My job duties drastically changed two years ago - I guess that counts as change.

We've lived in this house for 11 years, in Auburn for 14. A lifetime record for Tom, an adult life record for me. I lived in my parent's home for 19 years.

Because we have a very open floor plan, we've changed this house around many many times. One day the sun room is a playroom, one day a computer room, one day a dining room, now it is a "keeping room" complete with futon and television - oh my!

We're thinking about making a change, though, to another house - just maybe.

Next week - Tom and I will celebrate our 20th wedding anniversary. We dated for six years prior to getting married - that's 26 years we've been together. Not much change associated with that - except that we make sure we're always engaged in something new in our life - always.

There's strong possibilities of big changes around the corner for both of us and we are both giddy with excitement. We're trying to stay grounded so that we're not grossly disappointed and unhappy if the results are not what we want. Our solution - figure out another change.

Saturday, June 21, 2008

A Huge Pot of Miscellaney Stew

Check out Try for Friday again - this time on Babulous~
Last Friday they borrowed $4K worth of microphones, set up tons of computer equipment, mixers - etc. and spent almost 48 hrs. in our basement recording two songs - I so wish we had a photograph.

The only song I have is a cover of Muse's Hysteria. I couldn't figure out how to put it in a blog post itself - so I posted it as a page element. I'll leave it up for a week or two.


Our oldest son goes to soccer camp tomorrow at Birmingham Southern College. He is super excited and has been packing for days. Soccer is his life these days.

He spends six days a week either cross country running, strength training, or playing pickup soccer to stay in shape during the off season - which is only June and July! He plays either club or high school soccer ten months a year. This year his club team, Auburn Thunder U-16, is playing in Division I State. He hopes that if for the next three years he goes to college summer camps, plays Division I club league and starts on a 6-A high school team - he'll get a college scholarship - or at least be able to walk on without ridicule. His only set back, according to him - he lives in Alabama -- Not exactly your bastion of FĂștbol. Our club, which now has Alex City and Montgomery players on it because of the Alabama six-man rule - is pretty good and we're hoping to play in tournaments in Georgia and Tennessee where soccer is much better and well respected.

We purchased the Sports package for our cable to watch Euro2008 There is a game everyday. We TIVO or rather DVR with our cable company - every game and watch them in the evening.

Our youngest son has decided he wants to play the alto saxophone! His reason you ask? Because all of his buddies decided to play woodwinds in the middle school band. UGH! This is the child that was fired by not one but TWO piano teachers. He says to us. . .I wanna play the drums - so we bought a very nice Tama set. Lo and behold - his drum instructor FIRES HIM, TOO! Ugh. . .he HATES practice. We're renting a saxophone.


Interestingly enough there is a strong history in my family of alto sax players. My older brother and his daughter were both first chair alto sax players in the Auburn University Marching Band. Danny from 1976-1980, his daughter Alison from 1997-1999. It's fun when they come to alumni band week.

I wish the little one could find something to be passionate about like big brother. He's naturally better at soccer than big brother, just doesn't have the drive to succeed - same with music. He's still only twelve and I'm sure he will find it - my guess is stand up comedy.


We've been looking for a new house -- Just randomly. We're thinking that now may be a good time to buy - we have a list of folks who have asked us to let them know when we want to sell ours. . . .we think now is the time. More than likely we'll make a lateral move - not looking for bigger or better, but less maintenance and one floor. We're having a hard time finding something in town - there are lots of homes for sale in the sub-divisions on the edges of town. We like living in the city.

I'm tired of politics for awhile. Seems like I have "discussions" with my big brother almost everyday. We cancel each other out. He is a wealthy lumber importer who is against any and all environmental issues. He imports lumber and sells it to the mobile home industry and home improvement mega-stores. I call him a rain forest raper. He mostly imports from Brazil, Indonesia and Peru.


I raise money for a program that is trying to build homes to compete with the mobile home industry for USDA 502 loans! For those who don't know the jargon - 502 loans are subsidized home loans up to $57K - usually you can't find a stick-built home for that price, so most govt. 502 loans go for mobile homes~ a stupid investment for our government - not to mention how they are misleading the borrower - they have NOTHING after 30 years with a mobile home - are basically homeless after paying a mortgage for 30 yrs. It's a disgrace. Stick-built (or in our case steel frame-built) homes are sustainable! After 30 yrs. the homeowner has a home to pass to their children.



We are building proto-types in rural and poverty stricken west Alabama - we hope to distribute the plans nationwide with the help of a few corporate investors - in 2009~ Exciting times - for me anyway.

Big brother has other issues with Barak Obama that I don't care to discuss here. Oil and Water - that's what we are in politics - thankfully, we agree on lots of other issues.

Funny thing. . . of all my family members - my little brother - who I have so many other issues with - mostly with in regards to personal responsibility - is the most logically minded family member I have! on my side of the family that is. He listens, reads and makes good political decisions - from my point of view anyway~



That's a lot of stew~ Until next time . . . . be cool.

Sunday, June 15, 2008

Celebrating My Daddy

My Daddy was the BEST Papa to Trey and Foster. He loved them very much and was so kind to all children. He was truly engaged with them, made eye contact with them, and loved to play.


He kept Trey while Foster was born at East Alabama Medical Center and couldn't wait to get to the hospital to see little Foster.



He spent EVERY Christmas of their life at OUR house.


This is one of my favorite pictures of Daddy. These "puppets" came with a book - they never read the book - they played their own game. Trey LOVED to visit his Papa.


When we did visit Papa, Papa always read to Trey until he fell asleep - even if I said let's just put him down Daddy or he'll have me doing that every night. . . .to which Daddy would always reply, well, Baby, maybe you should!

I love you Daddy, and miss you very much.

Friday, June 13, 2008

Peace Be With You Tim Russert, and Peace be with Your Family

You loved your Father and you were a wonder father.



When my Daddy died a little more than a year ago, a friend bought me the Wisdom of our Fathers - I LOVE that book.



You are an example of excellent work ethic, of family values in the truest sense and your love of everything political is contagious. You will be greatly missed. This political junky can't imagine a Sunday morning without your visit and setting the political stage for the week.

PEACE be with you always.

Sunday, June 8, 2008

More Miscellaney Soup

FINALLY, a great big exhale~



Even though I am a long-time Hillary Clinton fan, I gave my full support to Barak Obama months ago. I'm glad she finally gave her full support - and what better place to do it than the National Building Museum, which holds major significance in my life having been there on two extraordinary occasions in 2004. The Rural Studio Lecture and Exhibit and the AIA Gold Medal Award.



Charlie Wilson's War~ Another MUST SEE movie. It is essential pre-iraq wars history to learn, if you don't already know the history. It brings back memories of early '80s business world - that I'm proud to have survived.

And now something toally funny (Thank you Richard Pitts, my new friend I made in Chicago who's been in my circle of friends here at Auburn for a while) I stole it from his facebook. To all my republican friends~ I'm so sorry, but I'm afraid it's gonna be a blood bath.







And the only thing I can say about this. . . . . . . .

WHAT THE?



I have to explain. . . cause it is our Tubby afterall. . . . he spent his summer vacation with the soldiers in Iraq - and all he got for his trouble was this photograph with Bush~ He looks thrilled, doesn't he?

That's it for Miscellaney Soup this week. Two blogs to come - my amazing week in Chicago in June 2008, and the latest kick-butt Rural Studio Projects. . . .Stay Tuned.

Friday, May 30, 2008

Miscellaney Soup

I've got a lot of things to throw at ya~



I LOVE THIS~~





We need to come together~

One of my favorite movies of all time -- JUNO~




After a lot of thought, I think I like it because Juno is SO self-confident, strong and makes unpredicted and out of stereotype choices. YOU MUST WATCH THIS MOVIE.

I'm STILL waiting to exhale~ WHAT'S GONNA HAPPEN? And God help ME, if I'm ever judged on the ministers and visiting ministers of the churches that I've attended!




What's with the plastic water bottle, Barack? You can do better than that!


And Finally~~

Separated at birth? Tom Denney - Keith Olbermann. . .you decide. Intelligent, handsome - salt and pepper hair, witty, and left - far left - of center. . .politically. . . .of course. . . . . .no wonder I have a crush on. . . . .Keith . . . . .and LUV Tom Denney.

Wednesday, May 21, 2008

Campaign Champagne


The College of Architecture, Design and Construction at Auburn University - where I work - had a Champagne Celebration on April 25 at Fountainview Mansion in Auburn. Our capital campaign was a huge success and we had a fun time celebrating it. Pictured above are Tara, the Director of Development for CADC, Leslie the development coordinator, and me, the development and grant officer for Rural Studio. CADC is a great place to work.

Friday, May 16, 2008

State Champions~


YAY! Finally, a tournament win~ and the one that counts the most. Go Auburn Thunder.

Wednesday, May 14, 2008

Votre guide touristique de Paris

Soccer Chauffeur is cracking me up~

He'll be there until May 18 - follow along.

Thursday, May 8, 2008

MY HEAD HURTS


I'm not kidding - it realio and trulio HURTS! I had another full blown migraine with aura today. I'm just now able to look into the computer screen and it started around noon. I won't look at this screen for long.

The last time after I had one, I collected these images to write about them. The following image describes it well. It starts in my eye like a black spot or wavy spot - like heat waves. Then it starts to spread like a backwards jagged bright C. It gets larger and larger until it completely blocks my field of vision. This is usually in my right eye and my right arm goes to sleep with the needle prick feeling. It lasts about 20 minutes. I know that I have those 20 minutes (which I can't see through it to walk or drive) plus 15 more before I get a brain crushing headache that is totally and completely debilitating.


This image shows the color of it better. It is like a bright light. Twice it has been very colorful like a rainbow.


My headaches can last from a few hours to three days. I never know. I must get to a quiet dark place. There are some days when this is impossible.

If I take Imetrex (which I ALWAYS have with me) during the first onset of aura, I can cut the time drastically. After four hours, I take two Excedrin every six hours until it's gone.

I mostly know what my triggers are, but I don't have a clue what caused it today. Red wine, peanuts or peanut butter, too much chocolate will usually do it.

I'm not writing this to get sympathy, but to explain how they look and feel. I know a lot of people with much worse illnesses or that get these more frequently than I do, so don't waste your sympathy on me. I'm thankful that I don't get them very often, maybe once every quarter or 90 days.

Here some really cool Migraine Art - Isn't it interesting how pain, sorrow and other strong feelings bring out the beauty in artists and musicians?

Migraine Art - The New York Times > Opinion > Slide Show > Slide 9 of 11

Monday, May 5, 2008

Where's My Pant Suit?

Someone asked me today if I can support Clinton if she beats Obama for the Democratic nomination. Even though the polls are showing that she is gaining ground and that Obama can’t seem to crack the “Bubba” vote (well – DUH!! We ALL know what that’s about), I still believe that he will pull out this nomination. The Democratic Party’s super delegates are fools if they ignore the surge of young, enthusiastic and absolutely – idealistic -- voters just because the party thinks it can win in November. It’s about our future, stupid! Not necessarily about the next four years. We’ve not been forward thinking in the past, maybe I’m the idealistic one thinking that we are now.

However, the question is still in the air . . . .can you support Clinton if she is the democratic nominee for President of the United States?...?


You can bet your burnt orange pant suit I can! and here’s why –

Affordable Healthcare for all Americans is her #1 issue – I grew up with a self-employed father with a modest to low income, and a part-time working mom. When it came time for me to go to college – they had $23,000 in medical debt. That’s a lot of money in 1980 terms, when tuition was $2,500 a year and I even qualified for Pell Grants and couldn’t afford it.

Ending the Iraq War. She vows a phased redeployment within her first days in office and actually has a very well thought out and sustainable policy.

Energy and Environmental Concerns. “Hillary would transform our economy from carbon-based to clean and energy efficient, jumpstarting research and development through a $50 billion Strategic Energy Fund and doubling investment in basic energy research. She would also spur the green building industry by funding the retrofitting and modernization of 20 million low-income homes and take concrete steps to reduce electricity consumption, including enacting strict appliance efficiency standards and phasing out incandescent light bulbs.” Those of you who know me well – know this is paramount with me.

She has been a champion for women for decades. “Today, despite the progress women have made, they earn only 77 cents for every dollar men earn -- and women of color earn even less. Hillary is leading the charge in the Senate to strengthen equal pay laws and end pay disparities between men and women. She introduced the Paycheck Fairness Act to strengthen the penalties associated with wage discrimination, to ensure that the federal government sets a higher standard, and to increase oversight of employers. Hillary has also worked to increase access to capital and other support for women-owned businesses.

When it comes to each woman's ability to make the most personal of life decisions, Hillary has stood firm as an advocate for a woman's right to choose. She has expanded access to family planning services, including for low-income women. She spoke out forcefully against the Supreme Court's April 2007 decision that -- for the first time in decades -- failed to recognize the importance of women's health.”


I could go on and on. . . .I can’t believe I didn’t put her vision for rural American up top, or her well thought out economic plan (which I hope Obama adopts once elected) . . .all her issues are up top for me. . . .

So why am I supporting Obama . . .it’s simple. . .he is grassroots America, he’s new, his policies are not that much different from Clinton – but he brings with him energetic supporters and he is not accepting money from lobbyists in the healthcare industry, the oil industry or the weapons industry. . . .unlike Clinton. AND he is a new hope for our American youth - our young people LOVE HIM. We should listen to our young people. And, of course, there's that whole divisive issue - which I can't understand - WHY do people hate her so ?



McCain will bolster troops in Iraq, has vowed to overturn Roe v. Wade, and will stop all stem cell research – not to mention his immigration (anti-Mexican) policy, and openly admits that he knows nothing about the economy. There are many other issues too numerous to mention here.

At the end of the day. . . . .even if McCain is palatable to some democrats - it's those few issues that turn me away. Let's concede that he has the Bubba vote. We woman, young people, people of color and traditional working-class Regan democrats can make a majority and win in November with Obama or Clinton - if we stick together.

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All quotes and facts are from the candidate’s web sites:

HillaryClinton.com
BarackObama.com
JohnMcCain.com

Postscript - I referred to Senator Hillary Clinton as "Clinton" in this blog just as I referred to Senators Barack Obama and John McCain and "Obama" and "McCain" - it was her own web site that referred to her by her first name - Hillary - a fact that I find highly irritating. She should be shown the same respect as the men she's up against - and not referred to by her first name thus lowering her rank.

Sunday, May 4, 2008

And. . .He Drives


My son, Trey, turned 15 yesterday. He spent his day doing community service work for National Honor Society. He waited until the last minute to do his service - so he had no choice but to get his remaining eight hours in on his birthday. He came with me to the annual Auburn University Rural Studio Pig Roast.

Of course I didn't take many pictures - I never have time to do that. I am disappointed and hope that some of our students or staff did.

Trey had a day he will not soon forget, I know I won't.

It started out with him helping get the lunch ready, carrying boxes, etc. Then he had to help set up for the celebration in the evening - which included cleaning out the SubRosa~~ It had a lot of water in it from the storm the night before. He helped set up tables, spread hay over the wet spots on the ground, sell t-shirts = they kept him VERY busy.

He was helping to take loads of stuff from one venue to another when. . . . Johnny Parker, our construction supervisor and man who knows and does all! threw him the keys to the truck and said, "here drive this over to Chantilly." Trey told Johnny that his parents didn't let him drive, yet, that he just turned 15 today. To which Johnny replied in only a way Johnny can. . . DRIVE THE DAMN TRUCK!! Trey did.

Turns out I had gotten back from the tour by then and was sitting out front of Chantilly only to see my son, BY HIMSELF, driving down Highway 61! He pulled up with the biggest grin on his face and said please don't be angry - Johnny made me, and I knew he was telling the truth. Trey was scared to death. He has only driven a few times before with me or his dad.
Johnny scolded me up and down. . . A 15 year old BOY who has not ever driven a car? What the hell is that about woman? You better get with it or I'm gonna have to take him away from you!

Johnny took Trey under his wing for the rest of the evening - Trey helped him fix the electrical wiring to the stage, got to shoot real big boy fireworks, Johnny took him for another long drive and a few other things that will remain our little secret for now.

But the best present of all - Johnny went to the Piggly Wiggly in Greensboro (the only grocery for miles and miles) and bought Trey a birthday cake - asked Pam Dorr to decorate it and had about six or so Auburn University Sophomore women sing happy birthday and present the cake to Trey in front of 200+ Pig Roast guest. . . .

A birthday to remember for sure! Thank you Johnny.

Wednesday, April 30, 2008

Encore! Try for Friday

Come Together~



and

Let It Be~



My thoughts~

1. I HATE that stupid pole. . .I SO wanted to move it when we finished the basement - $15K!! Just to move the pole - it is load bearing - not a chance.

2. It makes me smile to see them do this for fun.

3. Did you notice the Fathead Homer? A gift to Tom.

4. I can't believe these boys are 15 and 16 YEARS OLD!! What happened to our little boys?

Did I say that I LUV Try for Friday?

Tuesday, April 29, 2008

Doughnut Man Does a Dozen


Dear Sweet Precious Foster,

You're twelve today. You changed our life on April 29, 1996. You make us smile everyday. We love you, are proud of you and thank God everyday that he blessed us with such a blithe spirit.



With all of our love,
Mommy, Daddy and Trey





Monday, April 28, 2008

Quentin, We're Proud of You


Auburn’s Quentin Groves was selected in the second round of the NFL draft by the Jacksonville Jaguars on Saturday, the 52nd selection overall.

One day last year - about this time of the year - I went to Cary Woods Elementary School to check my son out early. I don't remember why.

I noticed a big guy sitting in the waiting area playing with a phone, or Gameboy or some electronic thing. I thought he must be some one's brother or dad.

I told Ms. Mitchell that I needed to get Foster and she got on the intercom to his room and asked Ms. Cope to send Foster up front that he was being checked out.

The big guy stood up, walked over to me and asked me if I was Foster Denney's mother. I looked way up until my neck hurt - and said, "Umm maybe? Depends. . ."

He chuckled and said, "Hi, my name is Quentin Groves. I spoke to Foster's class today. He gave me his autograph."

We both cracked up. I shook his HUGE hand. He told me that Foster was a trip and I told him that was nothing I didn't already know.

Foster walks in - they share a "we've been brothers forever" kind of handshake. Quentin tells Foster to stay cool. Foster says, "always, man, always!"

You know, Quentin could have left Auburn and probably gone higher in the draft last year - but he was speaking to fifth graders instead - making them feel good about themselves.

We believe in you, Quentin, and are very proud of you. We know you will always do well because you have what all good Auburn folks have - Character.

Saturday, April 26, 2008

Why I Love Holy Trinity


Mission Statement

Holy Trinity is a diverse and vibrant community of Christians who
seek to live the Gospel in the Anglican Tradition.

We are an inclusive, Christ-centered community reaching out to all who seek a deeper spirituality and relationship with God and one another. Our parishioners are multi-generational and come from a wide variety of backgrounds. At Holy Trinity families, children and youth are rapidly growing in numbers. We are an open and affirming congregation centered on a common faith in Christ. We hope you will worship with us soon.

DIVERSE, INCLUSIVE, AFFIRMING. Holy Trinity welcomes everyone - just as you are.

AND, I'm proud of our latest - Stewardship of Creation. We've created a task force to advocate for wise and just environmental policy and to provide opportunities for service in the stewardship of the earth. Yep, you guessed it - I joined the task force.

Peace~

Thursday, April 24, 2008

Missin' Daddy Blues

Daddy came to me in my dream last night. He said, “Baby, let go of those old haints now, ya hear me. Your life is too short for that kind of nonsense and you’ve had a good life – a lot better than you think.”

Wow, just wow. Profound. But, wait, what EXACTLY did you mean? Daddy?

He never had much to say when he was living. He told me two other times in my life to “let go of old haints.” He meant grudges and regrets.

For the most part, I think I’ve lived my life daily and real. But if I am truly honest, I have to say that deep down inside, where it really counts, I do have a haint or two.

Ironically, and somewhat comforting, I woke up to a computer message this morning from a former student – one of my favs – Connely.

Folsom Prison Blues was one of my Daddy’s favorite songs. I cried.

Tuesday, April 22, 2008

Earth Day Pledge


Earth Day is Every Day.

What we've already done:


  • recycle all aluminum, glass, cardboard, and newspaper.

  • changed all of our light bulbs to compact fluorescents.

  • car pool everyday.

  • traded our SUV.

  • ride bicycles, scooters and motorcycles when we can.

  • walk when we can.

  • use refillable, non-disposable coffee cups and water bottles.

  • use reusable shopping bags instead of disposable plastic or paper bags.

  • wash our clothes in cold water.

  • pay all of our bills online.

  • got our heat pumps serviced.

  • keep our cars serviced.

What more we can do:



  • learn to compost.

  • use the library more.

  • get our name taken off more junk mail lists.

  • suggest to people who send mailings to create email lists.

  • walk more.

  • get programmable thermostats.

What do you do Every Day for Earth Day?